Training our dogs is only one of the many ways we spend time with them. We take them for walks, share adventures, and find activities we can do together. So much of what we do with our dogs has a purpose. Sometimes you might be working toward training goals or making sure your dog gets enough exercise. Other times, the purpose could simply be to have fun together.
Not everything we do with our dogs has to have a purpose, though. There should be moments to quietly observe and appreciate your dog, without a goal and without distractions. When we take time to step back and watch our dogs, we can learn a lot. It’s not just about understanding your dog better. Sometimes, these moments reveal a lot more.
Sniffing and Scrolling
I talk a lot about how important sniffing is for dogs. When a dog is sniffing on their own, they are gathering information. We can’t ever know exactly what the dog is experiencing. Are they sniffing for another dog or smelling where a rabbit ran through the yard?
One thing to try is taking time to watch your dog sniff and explore. While your dog’s sniffing might resemble how you gather information while scrolling, try not to use that time to catch up on your newsfeed. Instead, put your phone away and observe your dog.
You will notice interesting things when you pay attention to your dog’s behavior. You might notice your dog’s body language change and that they linger a little longer in one area of the yard. Maybe your dog is easily interrupted by sounds or becomes completely absorbed in sniffing without noticing much else.
It’s not just sniffing you should pay attention to. If you have a securely fenced yard where your dog can be off-leash, take time to watch your dog. Does your dog explore, constantly check in with you, or look for a place to dig?
Not every behavior needs to be analyzed. Taking time to watch your dog and appreciate those moments matters.
What You Might Notice About Yourself
Sometimes people notice things about their own behavior when they start observing their dogs more.
One example is giving your dog more choices on walks. When you’re in a field or on a trail, do you let your dog choose the direction, pause, turn back, or linger on a scent?
Some people will notice an impulse to constantly control and redirect their dog at first. Your dog can learn the difference between free time on a walk and more attentive walking, but you should remember to give them space during their free time, as long as it’s safe.
In the yard, you might find your dog checking in with you constantly. If your dog is looking for feedback or play, it could mean your dog isn’t used to spending time together without an activity. Of course, it could also just mean your dog wants to play with you instead of exploring on their own.
It’s Not About What You Accomplish
Again, this exercise isn’t about looking for answers about your dog’s behavior. There’s no right or wrong way to do this either.
It’s about taking time to pay attention to your dog and put away your phone, your to-do list, and your distractions.
Keep working toward your training goals and maintain your training sessions, but don’t forget to take time to appreciate your dog without trying to influence their behavior. Choose a place where your dog can roam safely in the yard or explore on a leash in a safe area. Then quietly watch and let your dog fill in the rest.
